I was recently thinking about me and my stepson's relationship and how much it has evolved. It's pretty cool these days. I wanted to share with all of you some secrets on how we got there (well what I believe got us there). Most of you know that I am not married yet but I am definitely in a committed relationship. The truth is we planned on getting married and well...I got pregnant first! Even though we're not married, my role is definitely that of a stepmom. Because we have not said our vows yet, some will say, "Well you're