Being a stepmom is a unique journey that can be both rewarding and challenging.   Stepping into the lives of your partner's children and trying to balance various emotions and dynamics can sometimes feel like an uphill battle. One common mistake many stepmoms make is trying too hard to fit the conventional mold of a mother figure.   But guess what? You shouldn't! In this article, as a blended family expert, I will explore why you shouldn't try so hard, stepmoms!  and why embracing your unique role can lead to a happier, healthier family dynamic.   Let's get the mini answer first and