HOW TO FIND TRUE LOVE BY BEING THE STRONGEST YOU’VE EVER BEEN! When I think of true love, it goes beyond an insane attraction but also someone you can build a life with. Someone you can fight with in a productive way and someone you miss every time they leave the room. My true love is also my best friend. Before this relationship, my ex and I were together almost 10 years! And wow was it hard to leave but I knew that he was not the person I could create a life with. He was selfish, enabled, and entitled.